One writes of scars healed, a loose parallel to the pathology of the skin, but there is no such thing in the life of an individual. There open wounds, shrunk sometimes to the size of a pinprick, but wounds still. The marks of suffering are more comparable to the loss of a finger, or of the sight of an eye. We may not miss them, either, for one minute in a year, but if we should there is nothing to be done about it.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Emotional scars do not heal completely; they remain as permanent losses.
- In plain terms
- Pain leaves permanent marks like losing a finger, not just scratches.
- What can you take from it?
- Accept that some wounds never fully disappear.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What scars remain?
- How do you live with them?
Another view
Some people do recover and feel whole again.
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Sometimes it is harder to deprive oneself of a pain than of a pleasure.
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