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What does it mean?
We cannot fully shape ourselves, but we can positively influence others' development.
In plain terms
You can't control your own making, but you can help make others better.
What can you take from it?
Help shape others positively.

Where it applies

  • mentoring
  • parenting
  • peer support

Putting it to work

  • offering guidance
  • supporting others' goals

Questions to consider

  • How have others shaped you?
  • What small help can you offer today?

Another view

It assumes you know what 'making' someone better entails.

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