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What does it mean?
Children receive gifts and must decide how to use them, learning to distinguish right from wrong on their own.
In plain terms
Kids must choose how to handle what they are given.
What can you take from it?
Teach responsibility and personal choice.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • education

Putting it to work

  • provide tools, allow independent decisions

Questions to consider

  • When should guidance intervene?

Another view

External guidance is still often necessary.

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