If you make people think they're thinking, they'll love you; But if you really make them think, they'll hate you.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People prefer feeling smart to actually thinking critically.
- In plain terms
- Flattery makes people like you; real thinking makes them hate you.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid challenging people too deeply.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do people prefer comfort over truth?
- How do you teach others?
Another view
Some people appreciate being challenged to think.
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