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What does it mean?
Despite billions of people, human focus naturally narrows to the self. This limitation highlights our inherent self-centeredness.
In plain terms
We can only really think about ourselves, not everyone else.
What can you take from it?
Accept that your attention is naturally limited to your own experience.

Where it applies

  • social isolation
  • personal reflection
  • existential thought

Putting it to work

  • practicing empathy
  • limiting self-focus
  • acknowledging biases

Questions to consider

  • Who do you prioritize in your thoughts?
  • How does self-focus limit your view of others?

Another view

It assumes everyone is equally self-absorbed regardless of context.

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