The great secret that all old people share is that you really haven't changed in seventy or eighty years. Your body changes, but you don't change at all. And that, of course, causes great confusion.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Lessing observes that while aging changes the body, the core self remains largely unchanged, which can be confusing.
- In plain terms
- Your body gets old but you stay the same inside, which is confusing.
- What can you take from it?
- Physical aging does not necessarily change your identity or personality.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does your personality stay the same over decades?
- How do you reconcile body and self?
Another view
People do change psychologically over time, not just physically.
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