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What does it mean?
Lessing describes a time that was unhappy and cynical but not tragic, marked by private misery and continued social activities.
In plain terms
That time was unhappy but not tragic, so life went on despite misery.
What can you take from it?
Life can feel wrong without being tragic, so people keep moving forward.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on past times
  • discussing sadness
  • analyzing emotional states

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge non-tragic suffering
  • recognize daily continuity

Questions to consider

  • What makes misery tragic?
  • Why do we keep dancing despite pain?

Another view

Some suffering does feel tragic and disruptive.

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