I'm always astounded at the way we automatically look at what divides and separates us. We never look at what people have in common. If you see it, black and white people, both sides look to see the differences, they don't look at what they have together. Men and women, and old and young, and so on. And this is a disease of the mind, the way I see it. Because in actual fact, men and women have much more in common than they are separated.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- We focus on differences between groups when we share more in common.
- In plain terms
- People look at what separates us instead of what connects us.
- What can you take from it?
- Look for common ground first.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What do you have in common with others?
- How do you bridge divides?
Another view
Real differences still exist and matter for justice.
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