Trust no friend without faults, and love a maiden, but no angel.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Expect imperfections in people you trust or love; perfection is unrealistic.
- In plain terms
- Accept flaws in friends and partners; perfection doesn't exist.
- What can you take from it?
- Love people as they are, not as ideals.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Do you expect too much from others?
- How do you handle disappointment?
Another view
Some faults indicate incompatibility rather than normal imperfection.
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