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What does it mean?
Failing to be alone forces you to accept poor relationships.
In plain terms
You settle for bad company if you fear being alone.
What can you take from it?
Learn to be alone to find better relationships.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • friendship
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • practice solitude
  • evaluate partners

Questions to consider

  • Why do I need people?
  • Am I afraid of silence?

Another view

Solitude can be harmful for some mental health conditions.

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