Skip to content
quotesby

About this quote

What does it mean?
Monroe argues that solitude is preferable to a unhappy partnership. She values independence over companionship if the latter causes pain.
In plain terms
It is better to be alone than to be unhappy with someone else.
What can you take from it?
Choose solitude over a relationship that makes you unhappy.

Where it applies

  • breakups
  • dating choices
  • relationship conflicts

Putting it to work

  • accept solitude
  • avoid toxic relationships
  • value peace

Questions to consider

  • Would you choose loneliness over conflict?
  • What matters more: company or peace?

Another view

Humans often crave connection regardless of the cost to happiness.

More from Marilyn Monroe

  1. It stirs up envy, fame does. People you run into feel that, well, who does she think she is, Marilyn Monroe? They feel fame gives them some kind of privilege t…

    Permalink to quote #51
  2. Joe doesn't think any man can love me except him. He's my best friend in the world. I don't want to lose him. I don't want to lose Jose (Bolanos). Oh, help me,…

    Permalink to quote #53
  3. In Hollywood a girl's virtue is much less important than her hairdo. You're judged by how you look, not by what you are. Hollywood's a place where they'll pay …

    Permalink to quote #50

Related quotes

  1. Ah, the strange, sweet, lonely delight Of the Valleys of Dream.

    William SharpWilliam Sharp quote #3
  2. The kind of relatedness to the world may be noble or trivial, but even being related to the basest kind of pattern is immensely preferable to being alone.

    Erich FrommErich Fromm quote #10
  3. I am a rock. I am an island.

    Paul SimonPaul Simon quote #16