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What does it mean?
The passage of time often leads to missing opportunities for connection or experience, which may seem lucky initially but feels tragic later.
In plain terms
Time passes quickly, and we miss chances to be hurt or connected, which feels like luck when young but tragedy when old.
What can you take from it?
Cherish moments of connection before time runs out.

Where it applies

  • reflecting on past relationships
  • aging process
  • life evaluation

Putting it to work

  • keep in touch with friends
  • seize the day

Questions to consider

  • What moments do you wish you had taken?
  • How do you define a life well lived?

Another view

It assumes being hurt is inherently valuable or necessary for growth.

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