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What does it mean?
Compromise is often seen as necessary for society, but it can feel personally damaging or degrading to the individual.
In plain terms
People say compromise is normal, but it can feel like it hurts you personally.
What can you take from it?
Recognize when compromise costs too much personal integrity.

Where it applies

  • workplace negotiations
  • political debates
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • set clear boundaries
  • evaluate trade-offs

Questions to consider

  • When is compromise worth the cost?
  • How do you protect your values?

Another view

Some level of compromise is often essential for any relationship to function.

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