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What does it mean?
The author suggests there is a strange sense of enjoyment or camaraderie in shared failure or downfall.
In plain terms
Sometimes it is fun to fail together.
What can you take from it?
Shared collapse can feel more enjoyable than isolated success.

Where it applies

  • team failures
  • personal setbacks
  • group projects

Putting it to work

  • finding connection in failure
  • reframing defeat

Questions to consider

  • Why do we bond over shared struggles?
  • Is failure ever a positive experience?

Another view

Romanticizing failure ignores its real negative consequences.

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