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What does it mean?
Hubbard warns ambitious women that marriage can trap them and erase their individual purpose.
In plain terms
Be careful with marriage so it does not end your personal goals.
What can you take from it?
Guard your ambition against domestic absorption.

Where it applies

  • career planning
  • relationship choices
  • self-preservation

Putting it to work

  • set boundaries
  • maintain independence
  • evaluate commitments

Questions to consider

  • What does a happy marriage cost you?
  • How do you balance love and ambition?

Another view

This view treats marriage primarily as a threat rather than a partnership.

More from Elbert Hubbard

  1. Woman's inaptitude for reasoning has not prevented her from arriving at truth; nor has man's ability to reason prevented him from floundering in absurdity.

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  2. Anyone who idolizes you is going to hate you when he discovers that you are fallible. He never forgives. He has deceived himself, and he blames you for it.

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  3. Why not be a top-notcher? A top-notcher is simply an individual who works for the institution of which he is a part, not against it.

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