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What does it mean?
Loyalty and love from others are good but require justification through our own behavior.
In plain terms
Love and loyalty are valuable but we must act to deserve them.
What can you take from it?
Earn devotion through consistent good behavior.

Where it applies

  • friendship
  • relationships
  • community

Putting it to work

  • act with integrity
  • honor commitments
  • reciprocate care

Questions to consider

  • How do you justify the loyalty of others?
  • Is unconditional love possible or advisable?

Another view

Love should sometimes be given unconditionally without demand.

More from Eleanor Roosevelt

  1. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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  2. The most important thing in any relationship is not what you get but what you give.

    Permalink to quote #19
  3. It is not fair to ask of others what you are unwilling to do yourself.

    Permalink to quote #16

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