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What does it mean?
Fairness requires leading by example and not demanding what you refuse to do.
In plain terms
Do not ask others to do what you will not do yourself.
What can you take from it?
Lead by example to ensure fairness in relationships.

Where it applies

  • workplace management
  • parenting
  • negotiations

Putting it to work

  • set personal examples
  • practice what you preach
  • audit your demands

Questions to consider

  • Do you hold yourself to the same standards as others?
  • What do you ask of others you won't do?

Another view

Some roles require delegating tasks you cannot do yourself.

More from Eleanor Roosevelt

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  2. No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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  3. You get more joy out of the giving to others, and should put a good deal of thought into the happiness you are able to give.

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