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What does it mean?
Act properly and modestly, not to please others, but to preserve your own dignity.
In plain terms
Behave well for your own dignity, not to impress others.
What can you take from it?
Prioritize personal integrity over seeking approval.

Where it applies

  • social etiquette
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • mindful conduct
  • setting boundaries

Questions to consider

  • When is it appropriate to adjust behavior for others?
  • How does dignity affect relationships?

Another view

Sometimes social expectations require compromise.

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