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A mature person is one who does not think only in absolutes, who is able to be objective even when deeply stirred emotionally, who has learned that there is both good and bad in all people and all things, and who walks humbly and deals charitably with the circumstances of life, knowing that in this world no one is all-knowing and therefore all of us need both love and charity.

Eleanor Roosevelt#23

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Maturity involves balance, objectivity, and humility in dealing with others.
In plain terms
Be objective and humble, knowing no one is perfect.
What can you take from it?
Treat others with charity and humility.

Where it applies

  • relationships
  • conflict
  • self-reflection

Putting it to work

  • listen before reacting
  • acknowledge flaws
  • practice empathy

Questions to consider

  • How do you stay objective when angry?
  • Where do you lack humility?

Another view

Balance is hard to maintain under strong emotion.

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