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I would not enter on my list of friends, (Though graced with polish'd manners and fine sense, Yet wanting sensibility) the man Who needlessly sets foot upon a worm. An inadvertent step may crush the snail That crawls at evening in the public path; But he that has humanity, forewarn'd, Will tread aside, and let the reptile live.

William Cowper#96

EthicsFriendshipHumilityRelationshipsCompassionMindfulnessSensitivity

About this quote

What does it mean?
I avoid befriending those who, despite good manners, lack sensitivity and may step on a worm; a humane person will avoid harming even small creatures.
In plain terms
Choose friends who are gentle and respect even the smallest life.
What can you take from it?
Value compassion over superficial manners.

Where it applies

  • forming relationships
  • observing others’ behavior

Putting it to work

  • seek kind companions
  • practice mindful walking

Questions to consider

  • What qualities matter most to you in a friend?
  • How do you show respect for tiny living beings?

Another view

The analogy may seem exaggerated for everyday social choices.

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