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What does it mean?
Contemplating mortality while interacting with others cultivates humility and reduces interpersonal conflict.
In plain terms
Remembering that you and others will die helps you let go of bitterness.
What can you take from it?
Meditate on mortality to find peace with others.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • daily interactions
  • spiritual practice

Putting it to work

  • morning reflection
  • meditation guide

Questions to consider

  • How does remembering mortality change how you treat people?
  • What holds you back from letting go of bitterness?

Another view

Focusing too much on death may induce anxiety in some individuals.

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