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What does it mean?
Deeply ingrained traditions guide us subconsciously, especially those we cannot easily name.
In plain terms
Unseen traditions shape our behavior.
What can you take from it?
Reflect on hidden influences in your life.

Where it applies

  • family gatherings
  • cultural rituals

Putting it to work

  • journal about inherited habits
  • discuss traditions with elders

Questions to consider

  • Which unnoticed traditions affect your decisions?

Another view

Some traditions are consciously chosen and can be changed.

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