When we describe what the other person is really like, I suppose we often picture what we want. We look through the prism of our need.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Our descriptions of others are often shaped by what we need or want rather than objective reality.
- In plain terms
- We see people as we want them to be because of our own needs.
- What can you take from it?
- Our view of others is often colored by our own needs.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What do you need from others?
- Are you projecting your needs?
Another view
Sometimes our needs align with reality rather than distorting it.
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