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What does it mean?
Even if you end relationships like marriage or employment, those people remain part of your life's story.
In plain terms
You can end relationships but those people are still part of your life story.
What can you take from it?
Past relationships remain part of your life story even after they end.

Where it applies

  • divorce
  • career change
  • life writing

Putting it to work

  • accept past connections
  • integrate history

Questions to consider

  • Who remains in your story?
  • How do past people shape you?

Another view

Some relationships can be so toxic they should be erased from memory.

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