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Heaven did not seem to be my home; and I broke my heart with weeping to come back to earth; and the angels were so angry that they flung me out into the middle of the heath on the top of Wuthering Heights; where I woke sobbing for joy. That will do to explain my secret, as well as the other. I've no more business to marry Edgar Linton than I have to be in heaven; and if the wicked man in there, had not brought Heathcliff so low I shouldn't have thought of it. It would degrade me to marry Heathcliff now; so he shall never know how I love him; and that, not because he's handsome, Nelly, but because he's more myself than I am. Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same, and Linton's is as different as a moonbeam from lightning, or frost from fire.

Emily Bronte#20

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The speaker rejects conventional happiness and marriage for love that defines their very soul, even if it seems degrading.
In plain terms
I would rather be in hell with the person I love than in heaven with someone else.
What can you take from it?
True love matters more than social standing or comfort.

Where it applies

  • forbidden relationships
  • personal crises
  • artistic expression

Putting it to work

  • pursuing authentic connections
  • challenging norms

Questions to consider

  • Is love worth sacrificing stability?
  • What defines a worthy partner?

Another view

Idealizing destructive love can lead to self-destruction.

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