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What does it mean?
Do not blame others or try to flatter them; stay impartial.
In plain terms
Avoid blaming and flattering anyone.
What can you take from it?
Maintain neutrality in judgments.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • social interactions

Putting it to work

  • practice objective assessment

Questions to consider

  • How can you stay impartial when hurt?

Another view

It may be difficult to stay neutral in emotionally charged situations.

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