Have this thought ever present with thee, when thou losest any outward thing, what thou gainest in its stead; and if this be the more precious, say not, I have suffered loss. (27)
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- When you lose something outward, remember the gain it brings in its place, and do not claim suffering.
- In plain terms
- Focus on what you gain, not what you lose.
- What can you take from it?
- Reframe loss as opportunity.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How can you find value in a painful loss?
Another view
Some losses are truly painful and cannot be easily reframed.
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