Our frustration is greater when we have much and want more than when we have nothing and want some. We are less dissatisfied when we lack many things than when we seem to lack but one thing.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Frustration grows faster with more when you already have much compared to wanting everything when you have little.
- In plain terms
- We want more when we have more, making us more frustrated.
- What can you take from it?
- Manage expectations to reduce frustration even as you gain.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes you dissatisfied?
- Do you want more than needed?
Another view
Lack of basic needs also causes deep frustration regardless of desire.
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