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What does it mean?
External conflicts with others often reflect unresolved internal struggles within ourselves.
In plain terms
Conflicts with the world mirror conflicts inside you.
What can you take from it?
Address internal conflict to reduce external conflict.

Where it applies

  • interpersonal disputes
  • negotiations
  • therapy

Putting it to work

  • self reflection
  • conflict resolution
  • communication

Questions to consider

  • What fights happen inside me?
  • How does this affect my view?

Another view

Not all external conflict is due to internal issues; some are real.

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