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What does it mean?
Treating others well depends on how well you treat yourself; self-respect fosters tolerance.
In plain terms
You treat others how you treat yourself.
What can you take from it?
Self-respect leads to tolerance of others.

Where it applies

  • conflict resolution
  • friendships
  • family dynamics

Putting it to work

  • build self-esteem
  • practice self-forgiveness
  • extend kindness to others

Questions to consider

  • How does your view of yourself shape your view of others?
  • Can you love others without loving yourself?

Another view

Some may be tolerant despite low self-worth.

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