You accept certain unlovely things about yourself and manage to live with them. The atonement for such an acceptance is that you make allowances for others - that you cleanse yourself of the sin of self-righteousness.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Accepting your own flaws allows you to be more forgiving of others and reduces self-righteousness.
- In plain terms
- Acknowledging your flaws makes you more kind to others.
- What can you take from it?
- Self-acceptance fosters empathy for others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What flaws do you struggle to accept?
- How does self-judgment affect your view of others?
Another view
Acceptance does not mean ignoring harmful behaviors.
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