Pride is a sense of worth derived from something that is not organically part of us, while self-esteem derives from the potentialities and achievements of the self. We are proud when we identify ourselves with an imaginary self, a leader, a holy cause, a collective body or possessions. There is fear and intolerance in pride; it is sensitive and uncompromising. The less promise and potency in the self, the more imperative is the need for pride. The core of pride is self-rejection. It is true that when pride releases energies and serves as a spur to achievement, it can lead to a reconciliation with the self and the attainment of genuine self-esteem.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Pride comes from external attachments like status or groups, whereas self-esteem comes from personal growth and potential.
- In plain terms
- Pride is based on outside things; self-esteem is based on who you really are.
- What can you take from it?
- True self-worth comes from within, not from external symbols.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Where does your sense of value come from?
- How do you handle feelings of inadequacy?
Another view
Pride can sometimes motivate achievement before leading to self-rejection.
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