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Pride is a sense of worth derived from something that is not organically part of us, while self-esteem derives from the potentialities and achievements of the self. We are proud when we identify ourselves with an imaginary self, a leader, a holy cause, a collective body or possessions. There is fear and intolerance in pride; it is sensitive and uncompromising. The less promise and potency in the self, the more imperative is the need for pride. The core of pride is self-rejection. It is true that when pride releases energies and serves as a spur to achievement, it can lead to a reconciliation with the self and the attainment of genuine self-esteem.

Eric Hoffer#38

PsychologyIdentitySelf worthPersonal growthPrideSelf esteem

About this quote

What does it mean?
Pride comes from external attachments like status or groups, whereas self-esteem comes from personal growth and potential.
In plain terms
Pride is based on outside things; self-esteem is based on who you really are.
What can you take from it?
True self-worth comes from within, not from external symbols.

Where it applies

  • personal development
  • dealing with insecurity
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • focus on personal achievements
  • distinguish pride from self-worth

Questions to consider

  • Where does your sense of value come from?
  • How do you handle feelings of inadequacy?

Another view

Pride can sometimes motivate achievement before leading to self-rejection.

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  2. Whenever we proclaim the uniqueness of a religion, a truth, a leader, a nation, a race, a part or a holy cause, we are also proclaiming our own uniqueness.

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  3. A fateful process is set in motion when the individual is released 'to the freedom of his own impotence' and left to justify his existence by his own efforts. …

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