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What does it mean?
Rudeness is a weak person trying to look tough.
In plain terms
Being rude is how weak people act strong.
What can you take from it?
True strength does not need rudeness.

Where it applies

  • leadership
  • conflict
  • social interaction

Putting it to work

  • lead with kindness
  • ignore insults
  • practice patience

Questions to consider

  • Is your rudeness strength or weakness?
  • How do you handle rude people?

Another view

Sometimes assertiveness looks like rudeness to others.

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