If a person loves only one other person and is indifferent to all others, his love is not love but a symbiotic attachment, or an enlarged egotism.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love focused on only one person while ignoring others is often about attachment or ego, not genuine care.
- In plain terms
- Loving one person but ignoring others is selfish attachment, not love.
- What can you take from it?
- True love extends beyond a single relationship.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is your love inclusive or exclusive?
- Does love extend to strangers?
Another view
Special bonds like romance often prioritize one person naturally.
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