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What does it mean?
Suggests that intense need or possession kills the relationship it targets.
In plain terms
Trying too hard to have a relationship will ruin it.
What can you take from it?
Obsession destroys relationships.

Where it applies

  • relationship advice
  • psychology talks

Putting it to work

  • discuss healthy boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Does trying too hard kill relationships?
  • What makes a relationship work?

Another view

Sometimes effort and commitment strengthen relationships rather than destroy them.

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