By narcissism is meant ceasing to have an authentic interest in the outside world but instead an intense attachment to oneself, to one's own group, clan, religion, nation, race, etc. - with consequent serious distortions of rational judgment. In general, the need for narcissistic satisfaction derives from the necessity to compensate for material and cultural poverty.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Narcissism is replacing interest in the world with intense attachment to self or one's group. It distorts judgment and stems from inner poverty.
- In plain terms
- Narcissism is loving yourself or your group more than the world.
- What can you take from it?
- Watch for narcissism distorting your judgment.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you too focused on yourself?
- Why do you seek narcissistic satisfaction?
Another view
Narcissism is sometimes necessary for self-preservation.
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