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What does it mean?
Love unites two people while preserving their individuality. It is a paradox of becoming one while remaining two.
In plain terms
Love joins people without erasing their individuality.
What can you take from it?
Maintain individuality within intimacy.

Where it applies

  • romantic relationships
  • partnership
  • marriage

Putting it to work

  • value partner's independence
  • balance to and self

Questions to consider

  • How do you balance unity and self?
  • Is losing yourself in love good?

Another view

Some relationships sacrifice individuality for unity.

More from Erich Fromm

  1. If I am what I have and if I lose what I have who then am I?

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  2. Integrity simply means a willingness not to violate one's identity.

    Permalink to quote #80
  3. Education is helping the child realize his potentialities.

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