Love is union with somebody, or something, outside oneself, under the condition of retaining the separateness and integrity of one's own self.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Love connects people while still respecting their individuality.
- In plain terms
- Love means being close but still yourself.
- What can you take from it?
- Maintain yourself while loving others.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can you love without losing yourself?
- Is independence a barrier to love?
Another view
Deep love often blurs boundaries.
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