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What does it mean?
People adapt their desires to match their ability to satisfy them.
In plain terms
You learn to want things you can actually get.
What can you take from it?
We adjust our wants to fit our means.

Where it applies

  • resource management
  • personal goals
  • expectations

Putting it to work

  • goal setting
  • financial budgeting
  • self-regulation

Questions to consider

  • Should we change desires or means?
  • Is this healthy acceptance?

Another view

It might encourage settling for less rather than striving for more.

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