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What does it mean?
Simple food with modest music is better than rich food when the giver constantly boasts about its cost.
In plain terms
Simple meals with quiet music are better than expensive meals with bragging.
What can you take from it?
Modesty in hospitality beats arrogance with luxury.

Where it applies

  • social gatherings
  • gift giving
  • hosting

Putting it to work

  • host modestly
  • avoid boasting

Questions to consider

  • Is it better to be modest or lavish?
  • How does pride affect hospitality?

Another view

Wealth and generosity are not mutually exclusive.

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