Although there exist many thousand subjects for elegant conversation, there are persons who cannot meet a cripple without talking about feet.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Some people lack social grace and fixate on obvious differences rather than finding common ground.
- In plain terms
- Some people are rude and only talk about what makes others different.
- What can you take from it?
- Good conversation focuses on shared topics, not flaws.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes a good topic?
- How do you include others?
Another view
Sometimes the difference is the most relevant topic at hand.
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