They're all deserting me. I've been too kind. Spare the rod and spoil the fun. Oh, for the glands of a Bismarck.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Being too kind can make you lose respect; sometimes firmness is needed to command authority.
- In plain terms
- Being too kind can make people lose respect for you.
- What can you take from it?
- Kindness must be balanced with boundaries.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Have you lost respect by being too kind?
- When is firmness more effective than kindness?
Another view
Kindness often builds respect better than fear.
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