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What does it mean?
Pride in one's suffering can create a false sense of being chosen.
In plain terms
Valuing your pain can make you feel special or chosen.
What can you take from it?
Avoid turning your suffering into a source of pride.

Where it applies

  • dealing with trauma
  • seeking validation
  • writing about pain

Putting it to work

  • reframing pain
  • seeking support
  • releasing victimhood

Questions to consider

  • Is suffering a badge of honor?
  • Why do we value pain?

Another view

Acknowledging suffering can sometimes help heal rather than hurt.

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