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It is a queer and fantastic world. Why can't people have what they want? The things were all there to content everybody; yet everybody has got the wrong thing. Perhaps you can make head or tail of it; it is beyond me. Is there any terrestrial paradise where, amidst the whispering of the olive-leaves, people can be with whom they like and have what they like and take their ease in shadows and in coolness? Or are all men's lives like the lives of us good people - like the lives of the Ashburnhams, of the Dowells, of the Ruffords - broken, tumultuous, agonized, and unromantic lives, periods punctuated by screams, by imbecilities, by deaths, by agonies? Who the devil knows?

Ford Madox Ford#12

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About this quote

What does it mean?
The world seems chaotic and illogical, with people rarely finding true contentment.
In plain terms
People want things but end up with the wrong ones in a confused world.
What can you take from it?
Human desire often leads to dissatisfaction despite available resources.

Where it applies

  • contemplating life
  • social observation
  • philosophical debate

Putting it to work

  • seeking peace
  • accepting limits
  • finding balance

Questions to consider

  • Why are people often unhappy?
  • Is a perfect life possible?

Another view

It assumes contentment is impossible rather than just difficult.

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