The opposite of talking isn't listening. The opposite of talking is waiting.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Waiting is the active pause that contrasts with speaking, whereas listening implies processing.
- In plain terms
- The opposite of talking is just waiting for your turn.
- What can you take from it?
- Silence is often preparation, not reception.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Are you listening or waiting?
- What is the opposite of talk?
Another view
Waiting can be a form of listening.
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