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Suspicions amongst thoughts, are like bats amongst birds, they ever fly by twilight. Certainly they are to be repressed, or at least well guarded: for they cloud the mind; they leese friends; and they check with business, whereby business cannot go on currently and constantly. They dispose kings to tyranny, husbands to jealousy, wise men to irresolution and melancholy. They are defects, not in the heart, but in the brain; for they take place in the stoutest natures.

Francis Bacon#116

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Suspicion acts like twilight creatures, clouding judgment and damaging relationships.
In plain terms
Suspicion hurts your mind and your friendships.
What can you take from it?
Repress suspicion to protect relationships and business.

Where it applies

  • workplace
  • marriage
  • governance

Putting it to work

  • verify facts before suspecting
  • address distrust openly

Questions to consider

  • When is suspicion healthy?
  • How does suspicion affect trust?

Another view

Some caution is necessary for safety.

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