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What does it mean?
People miss the intensity of strong passions even after they are gone.
In plain terms
When big feelings stop, you feel both relief and sadness.
What can you take from it?
Emotional intensity often feels like life itself, even if painful.

Where it applies

  • recovering from addiction
  • post-breakup
  • career changes

Putting it to work

  • accept mixed feelings after change
  • acknowledge the void

Questions to consider

  • What passion do you secretly miss?
  • Is peace boring to you?

Another view

Relief usually outweighs the pain of losing passion eventually.

More from Francois de La Rochefoucauld

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  2. Les querelles ne dureraient pas longtemps, si le tort n'etait que d'un cote.

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  3. Il y a peu de femmes dont le merite dure plus que la beaute.

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