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What does it mean?
Other people's pride offends us because it hurts our own pride.
In plain terms
We hate others' vanity because it wounds our own.
What can you take from it?
Hypocrisy feels threatening when others show it too.

Where it applies

  • peer competition
  • workplace dynamics
  • social media

Putting it to work

  • check your ego
  • praise others
  • focus on self-improvement

Questions to consider

  • Why does this person's success bother you?
  • Are you proud of your own traits?

Another view

Sometimes others' vanity is genuinely harmful, not just hurtful to ego.

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  2. Il faut gouverner la fortune comme la sante: en jouir quand elle est bonne, prendre patience quand elle est mauvaise.

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  3. On donne des conseils mais on n'inspire point de conduite.

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