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The pleasure of being with you is in the clash of personality, the intellectual battle, the war of ideas. To survive you one must have a strong brain, an assertive ego, a dynamic character. In your luncheon-parties, in old days, the remains of the guests were taken away with the debris of the feast. I have often lunched with you in Park Lane and found myself the only survivor.

Frank Harris#8

CompetitionIntellectSocial dynamicsSurvival

About this quote

What does it mean?
Intellectual competition is the real value in this company, often leaving only the strongest survivors.
In plain terms
Our interactions are battles of ideas where only strong minds survive.
What can you take from it?
Strong egos and intellects are needed to engage in high-level debate.

Where it applies

  • intellectual circles
  • business negotiations
  • debate

Putting it to work

  • developing resilience
  • intellectual engagement

Questions to consider

  • Is conflict necessary for growth?
  • What defines a successful social interaction?

Another view

It frames social interaction as a war which may alienate others.

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