Ou vous avez un rival ou vous n'en n'avez pas. Si vous en avez un, il faut plaire pour lui etre prefere; si vous n'en n'avez pas, il faut encore plaire pour eviter d'en avoir.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- To succeed in competition, you must charm the person choosing between you and others. Even without a rival, you must still charm to prevent one from appearing.
- In plain terms
- Always win people over to stay ahead or avoid competition.
- What can you take from it?
- Charm is essential for gaining preference and preventing rivals.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much of success depends on likability?
- Is avoiding rivals enough for long-term success?
Another view
This assumes charm is always the deciding factor in human choices.
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